Do What Works For You

It is okay to have someone to look up to and try to emulate their success. But sometimes there are methods that they use that may not feel comfortable to you, liking being very aggressive in conversations. If this pertains to you, find out why they make it successful and make it work for you in a style that feels right to you. Over time, you will develop your own unique style and use it to your advantage, but in the meantime just take what you can and make it your own.